People perception's

Now a days ... i can see that people like to judge people's actions whether its the right motives or not... the clear indications is the case that i have with my church mate... i have moved on with my life but hes still holding grudges on me.. i do not have any regrets anymore as if i still hold a grudge i only let anger in controlling my whole reaction.., My friend is still have a grudge against me hence its him that needs to let go.. He was in the wrong but i made the first move to apologize but he is still bitter (what else i want to do ??) bout it... i can't do anything to stop that from happening ... if its the case then this will have a bearing on him not me.. i have chosen to let it go but he still haven't let it go then its not my fault ... people only listen to 1 part of the story and begin to judge already... which i don't know why its like that..

furthermore, i do not know what else i can do.. i have apologized and he already accepted my apology... in the first time he made the first wrong action and all went wrong from there.... he added my friends at random and then my friend's friends deleted him from her friend list and then he re-add her ... so which one is worse.. please do get the fact right b4 u accuse me of being old fashion or cruel... if hes so good and all why his first account got banned.. and XY .. i know u put a comment in my c-box.. please have a bit of pride if u want to say anything (say it face to face).. i have more stuff to worry bout this tiny issue that is just 1% of my life.. i am out of breath and i HAVE put this issue behind me... this is the last post regarding the previous post.. i won't be blogging anytime soon cause i have final exams coming up....

so people... pls understand the predicament here.. if u were in my position, would u do what i did ?... if u do not random add people then i say that u're a good person, but then again i can't stop people form random adding for fun... its not about how many friends u have to be popular..Its bout Quality rather then Quantity ... u do not need to have more numbers of friends to be popular .. u need to have a close knit of friends.

(try putting u're self into my predicament first b4 u judge people) .. ppl will have a different view point if they took a look at another angle... its all i'm asking...